Not ALL bad

Nope, it's not all bad. I would be stupid to cling if it were.

He takes care of me too. He actually says that he's my slave. He carries my stuff, cleans my room, bathes my dog. He cooks for me, cleans up, and sometimes washes the dishes too. If we live together, he'd probably do the laundry and the ironing.

So it's not like the demarcation lines are clear - is he bad guy or a good guy?

Generally, he is a good guy. It's just that emotionally, I think he's so immature. He can't commit. And I'm not just talking marriage here.

Sometimes he hates how he looks. He vows to exercise and lose weight. He vows to do what it takes to look and feel better. And yet, he does not follow through. He can't commit to a plan. He refuses to make plans, because he knows he won't be able to commit to them anyway.

He wants to buy the world, but refuses to really save up for it. Seriously. We've talked about saving money so many times but it just doesn't stick. He will have some money, and then he will spend it. So in the end, he still has none left.

Stop. I started this post thinking how I would write about the good things, but I ended up bitching about his commitment issues?

Maybe something's wrong with me.